Write worries down during the day and save them for 15 minutes at 6 pm.
Rachel Adler, 29
Rachel’s worry ran from her first email to 1 am. A 30-day plan with worry time, no news after 9 pm, a running club, and Shabbat as a real switch-off.
Junior solicitorLondon, UKIssue: Anxiety and overthinking
Where Rachel started
Rachel replayed every conversation, read the news in bed until 1 am, and woke with a tight chest. She worried about worrying.
Goal
Worry less of the day, and fall asleep without her phone.
The science behind the plan
Every step comes from these methods, each backed by published research.
One worry each evening: the evidence for, against, and a balanced view.
Apps locked after 9, phone charged outside the bedroom.
Source: Hunt et al. (2018), Limiting social media to 30 minutes a day lowered loneliness and low mood, Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology
A beginners’ running club twice a week.
Source: Singh et al. (2023), Physical activity for depression, anxiety and distress: umbrella review, British Journal of Sports Medicine
A typical day
- Worry time at 6 pm, worries waiting until thenScience · 15 min
- Apps locked at 9 pmScience · 1 min
- Running club, week 2 of couch to 5KScience · 30 min
- Read Psalm 121 to close worry timeFaith · 3 min
Optional faith track
Rachel chose to add these. They sit next to the science steps, never instead of them. Sources are pending scholar review.
Reflection on Psalm 121
Source: Psalm 121
Why it fits: A short reading to close the evening worry time.
Shabbat as a weekly switch-off
Source: Exodus 20:8
Why it fits: Phone off from Friday sunset: a full day without news, which supports the plan.
These practices are data-based suggestions drawn from cited texts. They are not a halachic ruling or advice from a rabbi. Please consult your rabbi for personal guidance.
Rachel’s calendar
- Done
- Partly done
- Skipped
24 days done, 4 partly done, 2 skipped. Missed days never reset progress.
Week by week
- Week 1Writing worries down. Most never happened.
- Week 2Worry time each evening and apps locked at 9. The first nights were restless.
- Week 3Running club twice a week. Thought records got quicker.
- Week 4Falling asleep before midnight on most nights.
Score, week by week
GAD-7 (worry)
Lower is better. Her score moved from the high range to the mild range.
What helped most
- Worry time
- Apps locked at 9
- Running with other people
“I still worry. Now it has a time slot, and it doesn’t get my nights.”
Where Rachel is now
At the end of the month Rachel ran her first 5K in Victoria Park, and slept through the night before it.
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